Picky Eating Preventing

Picky eating is something that a lot of families are struggling with right now.  Some pandemic parenting survival strategies (which were a matter of necessity) have made food routines a bit more difficult.  Because I see a lot of babies and run the Baby Food Introduction Class, I am passionate about having preventive factors in place.  Picky eating is much more multifaceted than this but these are a few things to keep in mind especially when introducing foods to your young ones:

  • Family meals are key! That can be you and baby/child or a larger family.  You’re one of their favourite people in the world - when you’re enjoying good food they’re keen to be part of it.  They’re getting exposure to foods that you’re eating even if they choose not to eat them.

  • Stress makes things worse.  Babies/kids can pick up on our emotions.  When we’re feeling stressed  - they can feel it too and that can actually decrease their appetite.  It’s hard to trust the process, but we need to do that and/or get support to increase your confidence!

  • Exposure to texture is important.   This is one of the key pillars of food introduction between 6-12 months.   Eating is a very sensory-rich experience and if we’re only ever having smooth purees/soups/yoghurts, or crunchy pieces of toast/crackers, it’s no wonder that something with multiple textures that change as you chew them feels overwhelming!

  • Don’t offer a second meal.  Kids are smart.  If they are offered a peanut butter sandwich when they refuse dinner - they will very quickly start to refuse dinner more often.  We always want to have something they like and could fill up on with each meal - so it’s totally fine to have the peanut butter sandwich as part of dinner, but not as a replacement afterwards! 

  • Tastebuds are always changing - just because your child hasn’t enjoyed a food in the past does NOT mean they won’t enjoy a food in the future.  Taste cell receptors change every 14 days, while taste is a more complicated process than just the receptors - we want to give kids the opportunity to try things they haven’t enjoyed in the past.   Don’t give the label ‘they don’t like broccoli, they might surprise you in a future exposure!

There are MANY more things to consider when addressing picky eating - nutrient deficiencies (which can make things worse), digestive disturbances, building an appetite, sensory concerns, etc.  but these are a few pillars, to begin with.  Don’t ever hesitate to reach out to myself or to Shannon (Pediatric Occupational Therapist)  - when things are tough we often need a multifaceted approach!